Little Man is 22 months old. And for 20 months my uniform was yoga pants and t-shirts. During the year after little man's birth, like most first time moms, I struggled to find time and energy to get dressed, fix my hair, or actually do my make-up. Looking back, it wasn't that having a new baby was SO hard, it was that I had no idea how to juggle. I thought I was a master multi-tasker before his birth, but now multi-task has a whole new meaning. We went out to dinner a few nights ago, and my husband commented that he was exhausted just watching me manage our Little Man. We do like to call him an Octopus- arms going in every direction at once. But honestly, I hadn't noticed that I was doing anything more than the normal disaster control. And I think the main reason is that I have become a better multi-tasker.
With this newly refined multi-tasking ability, I have found myself able to put a little more time and energy into myself. So I am longing to dress like an actual adult again. I want pretty clothes, nicer make-up, and hair that doesn't spend every day in a bun. So my first step was to look in my closet and see what's left.

First things first- I had to purge any remaining maternity clothes. Yes, those are comfy shirts, dresses, and skirts but I'm not pregnant.
If you are looking for ideas of what to do with your maternity clothes here are my suggestions: 1. Give them to a pregnant or "trying" friend. 2. Find a second hand store and consign them. 3. *Most Important Idea* Donate them to a battered women's shelter. Many women need donated clothes during their pregnancies, and struggle to find them.
Secondly, I began trying on everything. If it's too big- donate it. If it's stained or damaged- cut it up for work cloths. Used clothes make the best wood staining cloths.

The last category is the too small group. I always struggle with this. Most new mom's don't fit back into their pre-pregnancy clothes because of a change to their body. This can be a weight change or a proportion change (meaning your hips shifted during pregnancy and labor). With the proportion change, your pants and skirts will be loose and snug in different places. What was once your favorite pair of skinny jeans, now sit too low in the back and create funny folds in the front. So, in these situations I have to push myself to be totally honest. If it doesn't fit right, I'm not going to wear it. So, its got to go. Off to the Consign or Donate pile.
Now I had to see what was left- and honestly it was a sad sight. So, I am working on renewing my wardrobe with pieces that are both functional in my day-to-day life and stylish.

Obviously this led to shopping trips to a variety of stores. And with Little Man in tow- clothes shopping is no fun. He has very little patience browsing, and even less in dressing rooms. Goldfish crackers only work for so long. ;) So I began looking for another option.
My hairdresser told me about
Stitchfix. This is a really cool website that provides an online personal stylist. You complete a personality form, and schedule your first "fix." The stylist chooses 5 items based on your profile, and mail them to you.
You pay for only those items you keep. While I have found several things I love through their website, I feel their prices (even when you select the low cost option) are very high.
So after two attempts with Stitchfix, I stumbled across what is now my
ABSOLUTE FAVORITE CLOTHING WEBSITE!!
So what is this amazing site? Twice is a place where you can buy and sell designer clothes in mint condition. Yes, you read that right- mint condition. I have made 3 purchases from twice so far, and am thrilled with everything I have seen.
Some of my purchases--
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New with Tags Loft sweater for $15. (Orig $90) |
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Jessica Howard sweater dress for $22. (Orig $190) |
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New with tags Express button down for $9. (Orig $50) |
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Romeo and Juliet Couture $8. (Orig $60) |
Over half my items are new with tags still on. (A website tip: If the item says NWT in the description, that means it is New With Tag!) And, I have been able to sell items to them as well. After signing up for an account you are able to browse all their in stock items- and a word to the wise- they add new items at midnight, so the early bird catches the worm on this site. Now if you purchase an item, when it arrives you can return it at no cost for store credit, or receive a refund after a $5 shipping fee. So essentially you can take your $100 budget and keep mailing items back until you have only pieces you are crazy about! No wasting money buying clothes online that don't fit perfectly or that aren't really your style.

And
Twice also sells men's clothing. I picked up this beautiful Tommy Bahama button down for my husband for under $20. He wears it at least once a week.
If you are struggling to refresh your wardrobe, check out these two options. Good luck finding beautiful things in a budget you can afford.
KL